Jessica went on Leno last night and said "We've had two different wedding dates, but he keeps knocking me up! I guess we're kind of doing it backwards now. So after this one, I'll just have to keep my legs closed till we get down the aisle". What a precious gift this woman is. She's trying to make her wedding day perfect. Actually it was perfect when you had it a few years ago with Nick. Perhaps you forgot that you wrote a book about how to have a perfect wedding like yours which is still available on Amazon. One of the lines was "weddings are supposed to be once in a lifetime occasions, so this should be your only chance to get it right". You got it right! There's no shame in being divorced and getting married again, but it's not going to be the big deal your last one was. You want to be married because you want to make a commitment to God and have Him be the center of your marriage. He doesn't care what you wear when you make that commitment! Now just go get married. If you want a party too, have a pig roast out at the house. You can't stroll down the isle with "Irish twins" suckling on you and expect people to look at this the same way they did when you told the world you were a virgin and had been saving yourself for this special day. Here's her wedding day and then her at a wedding last year.
You had the fairy tale. This is you now. Embrace it!